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Wednesday, June 19, 2013

Forgot To Do Self-Screening

Assalamualaikum, ni hao, konnichiwa..

It has been long time i have not update my blog. It takes so much glucose when i want to think something and write because i need to think first, write, and reread what i have written.

Today, i just want to advice myself and anybody who read this, please reflect ourselves before we condemn others. As the title mentioned above, most of the people always forgot to do self-screening which mean they just simply point others mistakes but they forgot that they are the one that cause the problem. Simple example like this:

Conan friends with Kitaro. Then Conan have done something wrong so badly but Kitaro ready to accept that and apologize Conan. However, things become worse when Conan don't even know he has done something bad. He is like 'speak with tongue'. He speaks but it was like he knows nothing about what he has spoken. Conan talks as if he knows everything but actually his action are not the same like what he is talking about. Kitaro get more confused and finally try to keep a distance from Conan because Kitaro don't like to backbitting or think negatively. Then, Conan also try to keep distance and just try to ignore his friend as Conan also getting more popular, many friends, lots of advantages/privileges.. So, this become more chronic and it is getting harder if Kitaro try to advice Conan.

Lesson learned:

  1. Before things get worse, lets solve the problem.
  2. If you want to get better and be better person, please be open-minded. Try to listen first and think.
  3. Never ever "speak with tongue".
  4. We friend with others is because of Allah. Please love your friend because of Allah. Even if your friend can't give anything, you are the one that need to help your friend and ask the reward from Allah. Your friend is only human being. The creation. Creation are very weak and don't hope and rely on creation. We are not living only in this world as we also have another world.
  5. Please give advice to your friend if you notice your friend have problem. Don't just ignore or become mastermind - to make your friend fight each other. Never add in "OIL".

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