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Saturday, April 22, 2017

Some Advices in Life

Assalamualaikum, Ni hao, Konnichiwa..

This is my second post for this year. Only now I'm able to have some time to write something. As usual, wanna write something short. Just some short advice.

If you want to choose your carrier (job), please choose the one that you like most. Meaning if you need to think about it for most of the time and you are happy with that, then the occupation is suitable for you. Why I suddenly saying this out of blue? coz now I only realized what I have choosen. So if you have child, expose them to everything. Let your child decide which things they like and develop/nurture their 'liking'.

How about you dont know what you actually like? Me also dont know how to answer that question. But i think it is better you ask Allah directly. He will let you go through the best route for you and believe in that. Believe that Allah knows you more than you know yourself.

Advice for those who get new job for the first time. Just do everything as being told even though you hate it or think it is not logic at all. Don't overthink, it is just a waste of energy. Sometimes you do not understand it at first, but later you will find out the wisdom behind it.  Most of the new start point will be very tough and challenging.

Not all working place will have good friends, good boss, or good leader. Most of time we will learn by 'force' a.k.a. under pressure a.k.a. learn by hard way. You will only realized the thing supposed to be done that way when you have done it wrongly.. or only realized after being scold~!.. Omg... Next, you really need to have 'deaf ear' and 'diamond heart' in order to live in the 'cruel working environment'. Am I being too negative? Nope. But why I'm saying 'cruel'? because some of them double face, treat people by casta (kasta), if that people looks weak, lets 'bully' them. hurmm~ Thats why the world now is really terrible  because the higher one is corrupt. We really need a good leader. Not a bossy boss. Some people just want to hide their weakness by scolding other people. this is real.

But one thing is that, you will also met people who work sincerely to help people as if the 'customers' is their own family members. I guess this kind of people believe in karma. Those who do good to others, we also received the same. This is in accordance in Islam but Muslim believe more than that. We want blessing from Allah which is far better than blessing from human itself.

My advice is that, just be confidence in yourself. Believe in Allah. No matter how bad they planned to do to you, if Allah has planned something better for you, you will get the best. So, no need to worry too much. Just do your best to get Allah's blessing. If you do your best to get people's expectation, people are always greedy and ungrateful and you will just end up fed-up.

You want something badly, but the challenges are there. A lot. However, nothing in this world comes easily. Even flowing water needs gravity. We as humankind are so weak. That's why we must always rely on Allah. Only Allah can help us go through everything with ease. Always pray to Allah and do your best. Let Allah do the rest.

Lets face the real world. Working world. World full of billions of 'colorful' people.

This is only my personal opinion. That's all.

Jaane~ Zai jian.

Sunday, January 22, 2017

Early Working Experience

Assalamualaikum, ni hao, konnichiwa.

Today would like write something short cuz got no energy. Hihi just started working on early December and the coming week will be 7th week out of 52 weeks total. So many new things i've learnt and many more to come. Working required lots of energy because my job require me to think, memorize, and relate with so many things. Multi-tasking. Eventhough you are officially in that unit, but still required to do duty on other unit when your name appeared on timetable. The happy news is that there will be no night shift.  I really need to be strong, eat more healthy diet, maintain good health, and pray alot to Allah to make me stronger to face any challenges.

I'm sure that my friends also find this route a bit challenging because we are still in early phase plus 'working environment' is not that islamic because some seniors just love to condemn, talk out bad things instead of guiding nicely. Simply just because you get paid, so they can do whatever they want. Not everyone are bad but there are some tarnish that situation. Maybe they forgot that we have life in another world where you will get punish/reward on what you have done to others. We are working simply because Allah told us to find rizq in halal way. Not to forget Allah remind in Quran to do everything ikhlas and many more. Do you realize that? Do you want to waste your deeds just like that? I hope Allah will 'balas' (return) you anything that you have done to others either good or bad things. And i hope that Allah will help me alot.

So, for others who do feel stress or less spirit, remember to keep praying , read lots of Quran, make dua to Allah. We are actually going through another phase of challenge. So we need energy from Allah to make us able to get through it.

Everybody do feel fatigue while working but they can still treat others nicely. You also want people to treat you nicely right? if you can still be nice to ordinary people,  weak people, inferior people, sick people, or bad people, then you are really awesome excellent and may Allah reward you with million of rewards. Help others so that Allah will help you.

Im saying this as a reminder to me as well.

Thats all. Jaane. Zai jian.